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So much has happened over the past couple of days! But before or that i expect that you have all noticed im not blogging every day and i wanted to apoligise for that, all will be revealed now.

Right it all started a couple of days ago when we got a phone call from tams sisters boyfriend saying that we made him feel uncomfortable and he wanted to talk to us about and we respect him so much for telling us to our face but he suggested that we talk to tams mum and step dad before christmas just to get things clear about wehat makes people feel uncomfortable espcially as we are spending christmas with everyone. The last thing me or tam wanted to do was make anyone feel uncofortable so i took the plunge and rang my mother in law only to be told by her step dad that he is homophobic and is finding it hard to come to to terms with the fact the him step daughter is gay let alone that she is married to a woman. Her mum wasnt much better and said that my gay out and proud personality offended her and she basically in not so many words asked me to tone down my gayness around her as you can imagine i was not best pleased by this but held my tounge for the sake of tam.

Then yesterday Tam got a phone call from her  mum saying thatshe doesnt get that my personality is built around the fact that im gay which it is because the way i see it my real personality didnt come out untill i came out that i was gay. Tam got angry and hung up the phone on her mum, then not long after tam got another phone call from her mum saying that she has had enough and doesnt think that we should spend christmas with them im sorry but who says that to there daughter no matter what there life style is.

What i dont understand is they were happy to come to our wedding and play happy families and act like they are happy for us, but i feel that is all it was a act. I find it very two faced that they could sit there and watch us get married when they think its wrong.

So i would love your opinons on the matter do you think it is 2 faced or is this just me being angry?

Right the good news we think that i could still be pregnant on the fact that i had my period so we thought that it was all over but it was alot lighter than usual and it has only lasted 2 day when normally it lasts at least 5 and im in absoulte agony and this time i havn’t been. So every one keep your fingers crossed for us and i promise to keep you all posted on it.

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